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Contact Person/Chapter Leaders/State Coordinator Corner
IN MEMORIAM
Recognizing those who served POMC as a Chapter Leader, Co-Leader,
Contact Person and/or Anniversary Card Writer.
James T. Lym - July 7, 2023 - Chapter Leader of the Minnesota Hope Chapter of POMC for many years.
James Timothy Lym, age 93, passed away on Friday, July 7th, surrounded by his wife and four loving daughters. Jim was born on
August 12, 1929, to Ernest and Kathryn (Cassidy) Lym in South Saint Paul, MN.
He was preceded in death by his son, Michael; his great-grandson, Gavin; sisters, Dorothy Lym and Margaret Murphy.
He is survived by his wife, Joan; daughters, Kathy (Mike) Dooley, Patty (Andy) Bierwerth, Therese (Ray) Robbins, and Mary (Zach)
Adams; grandchildren, Melissa (Brendan) Szala, Amanda (Kyle) Smith, Matt Bierwerth, Lindsey (Nate) Dillon, Ryan Dooley, Abby
Adams, Sarah (Tucker) Moses, Dillon Adams, and Tanner Adams; great-grandchildren, Trevor, Charly, Max, Zoey, Cameron, Colin,
Brianna, and Lexie.
He was a graduate of the University of Minnesota, where he studied Political Science and went on to join the Army where he worked in Counterin-
telligence during the Korean War. On January 7th, 1956, he married Joan Hynes at the Church of St. Andrew in St Paul. He worked in the Insur-
ance Industry for over 40 Years, where he helped to pioneer the coverage of Directors and Officers Liability Insurance.
Betty Ferguson - February 22, 2023 - POMC Contact Person for many years.
In life we are given many gifts, none more important than family and friends. As we enjoy those relationships while living, our hearts
break when it is time for them to go. Betty Ferguson, 80, of Erie, PA, passed away February 22, 2023 at Elmwood Gardens, after a
brief illness. Raised in Erie, PA she was one of four sisters born to the late Harold Palmer and Inez Heinonen.
She began volunteering at the Rape Crisis Center in the early 1980's. She eventually became an employee, remaining there for 25
years. In her time there, Betty earned several awards, including the Governor's Excellence Award, for her work with a mediation pro-
gram that permitted crime victims and/or families an opportunity to meet the offender. Betty also worked at the Whole Life Education
Center, teaching individuals and groups the process of healing their life, and how that was possible through the pursuit of forgiveness. She was
also nominated by a friend and selected by Edinboro University to receive an Honorary Doctorate for her years of service to the community
through counseling, teaching, public speaking, and being a tireless example of healing, recovery, love, laughter and finding your own truth.
Betty loved spending time by the water, travel, writing and talking for hours with anyone on their journey. She enjoyed her family get-togethers, a
favorite being "Spend the Night" each year just before Christmas. It is impossible to capture in one obituary, the life of someone who has lived 80
years. It is, however, possible to see some of it in the legacy they leave in those who knew and loved them. "How lucky we are to have something
that makes saying goodbye so difficult." A.A. Milne
She is proceeded in death by her husband Norm Ferguson, sister Ester Tesorero, and beloved daughter Debbie Gama. Betty is survived by her
sons Rick (Mandy), Daryll, Glenn and daughter Myshelle (Doug), her sisters Shirley Palmer and Carol Whiteman, several grand and great grand-
children.
VOLUNTEERS ARE ESSENTIAL IN FULFILLING
OUR MISSION!
NOTHING TEACHES HOPE, KINDNESS, COUR-
AGE, AND COMPASSION LIKE HELPING OTH-
ERS.
VOLUNTEERS DO NOT NECESSARILY HAVE
THE TIME…THEY JUST HAVE THE HEART.
We would also like to extend our thanks to the
many Contact Persons and State Coordinators
throughout the U.S. who also offer valuable ser-
vices to those survivors in their state who reach out
to them for additional support, especially when
there is not a POMC Chapter nearby. These volun-
teers are willing to spend time talking, and especial-
ly listening, to others about their loss. Let us recog-
nize all of them for offering continuous supportive
services to others for many years.
NEW CHAPTER
One new Chapter has joined the National POMC family recently and has opened their door to offer support:
The Greater Midwest Chapter of POMC
Chapter Leader: Yvonne Stewart (Parent)
Merrillville, Indiana
219-616-0069
Co-Leader: Stacy Spejewski (Parent)
Dyer, Indiana
219-682-7785